?Edging. It's a dangerous game. Lots of guys think they can "self-edge" (or ruin their own orgasms - ha), but let's be clear: If you're in control, you're just plain old masturbating. Don't feel bad; you're a boy, you can't control yourself. A phone client called me recently, so certain he could tease himself for hours, that I made him a deal: He got to be in charge of the stop-and-go, stop-and-go--and I'd play along with him. His wails and moans as he cums, live, on speakerphone, prove my point. Very effectively. But do I manage to come back from the edge of that climax cliff? :)?