In some cases you offer somebody all the tools for success as well as they still can not make something from it. Take Bella, helplessly frogtied with layers of plastic tape including her hands. We would not want to make it too easy. Behaving, I offer her a pair of scissors and also offer her 5 minutes to secure free. What does she do? Bella bats them about like a cat toy leaving me to think she does not really want to get free. It’s unclear what she wants behind her tape gag yet I assume we’ll offer her a while to cool off first.