I am a virgin loser in my mid 30s I probably will become the 40 year old virgin minus the valuable toy collection and the heartwarming love connection. I have been attracted to women all my life but they can smell the loser on me and want nothing to do with me. I have as such developed a longing and a disgusting habit of leering at attractive women.This has caused me problems at the college where I work. I was behind the deans daughter on the stairs when she caught me staring up her short skirt. She freaked out kicked me in the groin