If you're new to kinky sex, you've probably never heard of a "ruined orgasm" before. What is it? How does it work? And why on earth would you want to have one? In this latest installment of my BDSM Beginner series (see also, Your First Cum Eating ExperienceI walk you through the mechanics of cumming without fully satisfying your sexual urges. In doing so, you'll experience the delicious frustration of denied gratification. Whether you're learning to please a Mistress, or to fulfill your own curiosity, every newbie needs to try this!